Just a thought for you - ask your lawyer for your state's versions of the marital agreement and parenting agreement forms. Maybe if she sees that she will have to alternate holidays, vacations, etc with the girls and how the assets will be affected it may impact her thought process. It certainly did mine. It made me realize that was absolutely not what I wanted if there was any other way (even though I wasn't the one that intiated the D path I had certainly considered it numerous times). Seeing it in black and white was really a kick to the stomach for me.


He: WAH
Me: LBW
Precious: DD

~ I'm grateful for every day I have to improve the way I relate.