Long Distance Issues.....Possible WAW

[Dazed&Confused]

P.S.

Heads up, your life is very likely to aggressively try to "temperature-check" you over the next 24-72 hours. Sniff out what your plan is. It's very much script for them to "Need to know if Gatorz is OK with all of this."

You are under NO OBLIGATION to assuage her fears, insecurities or guilt, G8. You should ignore all but ONE of any TMs or e-mails about this subject, and that one response should be similar to what I posted to you upthread: "Not sure what my plans are at this point; I have some decisions to make."

Then GO DARK.

Puppy

You answered my next question before I could ask. I was going to ask if you thought it was alright to ask her what you mentioned before.....

You have always been a good wife and good mother, what on earth would make you have such a wide character switch? To give up on you family without trying? This is not an attribute of a good mother, which I always thought you were.

I know it's mean, but what you said is so true. She has NEVER shown even the slightest flaw when it came to parenthood. If anyone did, I did. I always didn't have the patience that she would want. I would sent my son to his room to fast. And I missed a t-ball game or two because of a "headache". All things that I have had time to look back on analyze. I am trying to find things to be ashamed of. But I am the one staying. I am the one fighting, and it is not making one ounce of difference......