Yeah, follow through and a stiff spine is essential. I've caved a lot on the deadline for moving out, but next week after meeting with my lawyer, I'm going to tell her that waiting til the appt. of her dreams is available isn't going to be something I'll live with. Tough love...
You've been in limbo a lot longer than I have, so you know how bad it is and how much you can take. I can't take anymore. The way I see it, the sooner we're apart, two things will happen:
1. Her little fantasy world will fall apart, and she'll realize that she should try to work on our R. I give this a 10% chance, though I truly hope it's the end result.
2. I can move on with my life, heal my heart, and find someone to share my life with in a happy, healthy, loving relationship. It's been so long since I've had that, I don't know if I'd recognize it!
