If you get a moment, can you check in on GoG8trz (sp?) over in Newcomers? He is deployed (contractor, though, not active-duty military), his wife is very likely cheating on him stateside ( ), and he's reeling. It's quickly "going legal," and I think he could benefit from better understanding what the rules are about divorce actions against someone who is deployed.
Since I knew what was going to go down last night, I made it a point to distance myself from the Intel flowing in.
So I get up this morning, and check it all, and what do I find?
TWO 45 minute calls to guy # 4 last night. Apparently they had phone sex twice. TEN "how to attract a guy/roommate" searches. And a 20 minute online quiz of "Does he like you and want to date you: Find out now".
So, she phone sexes it up with guy #4 TWICE. Then gets online and searches for 45 min about how to get guy #3.
So I am thinking the exposure is going to go down today. Guy #4 and his girlfriend are West Coast, and are 3 hours behind me. So there is a 3 hour lag that I have BEFORE she will probably visit guy #4 for the weekend.
I need to make sure she understands what to look for, and to check his phone or Facebook if she can.
I need help with the opening and format of the exposure email. It looks like it is going to have to be through Facebook, but I am NOT discounting finding her real email address. I am presently working some magic to try and do that.
Me - 32 Her -30 Married - 7 Years Together - 9 Years No Kids 05/21 - Bomb 6/8 - Exposed 7/9 - Re-Exposed 06/11 - She Filed
I need help with the opening and format of the exposure email. It looks like it is going to have to be through Facebook, but I am NOT discounting finding her real email address. I am presently working some magic to try and do that.
You might try playing it like you're:
A. The betrayed wife or girlfriend of some guy your wife's already done and you're keeping tabs on her (in case she comes back) and wanted to give her newest prey's significant other a heads' up
or
B. You're someone guy #4 works with and you heard him bragging about the woman he hooked up with online
You might start it with something like:
I Know Something About Your Boyfriend, and You're Not Going to Like It or
Your Boyfriend's Doing Something Behind Your Back that I Think You Should Be Aware Of
Either way, play it like you know this is going to hurt and you're sorry to have to tell her, but she has a right to know, yadda, yadda.
Hey QS... I just thought of something and it cracked me up... Since your wife is diong all this internet stuff with these mystery men why don't YOU become guy #5? lol
Create a phony profile, put photos up... post to your wife's facebook and chat her up lol
Already 2 steps ahead of you dude, like about a month ago too.
I am positioning myself to strike and get ALL the information I possibly can.
She opens up REALLY FAST. She told guy #4 AFTER 25 MINUTES OF CHATTING that SHE was the "unfaithful" one. And like I mentioned before, she was telling him what she liked to do to guys LIKE SHE HAS RECENTLY DONE IT.
So I am thinking that I can get her to open up to "guy #5", and find out EVERYTHING my intel is lacking.
Last edited by Quicksilver264; 07/30/1005:29 PM.
Me - 32 Her -30 Married - 7 Years Together - 9 Years No Kids 05/21 - Bomb 6/8 - Exposed 7/9 - Re-Exposed 06/11 - She Filed
QS don't sweat what she says she's done recently... I am thinking at the moment that your wife talks a good talk but is lying most of the time.. remember she's a liar dude... why are you assuming anything seh tells these guys is the truth?
Seriously.. if you met this woman and had all your intel on her would you TRUST ANYTHING she SAYS?
), and he's reeling. It's quickly "going legal," and I think he could benefit from better understanding what the rules are about divorce actions against someone who is deployed.