I did tell her that I was not sure if I could even do this though. That it would be real hard for me to sign anything while not being there. She seemed to understand. Which was weird as seeing how impatient she came off in the beginning.
G - Use this then. Keep the focus on the kids and YOUR FAMILY. Like Puppy said "Tell her that you understand how she feels, but you are a man, a trained soldier and you are trained to face your problems not run away from them. So with all do respect you will have to hold off on making any decisions while you are deployed". If she fights this then you tell her you do what you need to do... period
