I really dont think she is upset about that. She was leaving in her mind before hand. I hate the fact that when she got quite for 8 months I thought we were a little better, when she left I felt "shocked". I ask why didnt you come to me before hand so we could get into counseling 8 months ago and her reply was " I shouldnt of had to, you should of seen it". She is not the kind of person that shares a lot. It has help get us in this spot just as much as my faults. Im not sure really what to do next.
