Pinhead, Thanks for this. I realize the hard bit is you have to follow through so i am going to take some time to figure out what works for ME.
When I take this path it is for ME and not some idle threat to try and force her to stay in the M because if she really doesn't want to be there whats the point. My issue right now is how much of my life should i put on hold waiting for her to sort hers out.
I know its only been 3 months but it seems like an eternity. It's like living with a REALLY bad roommate who expects you to pay their rent. How long would we put up with that.
