Do I belong in peicing? I need some Christian Counsel--are there any veterans aroud these boards that approach these problems from a spiritual angle?
My H is making TONS of noise that he is heading to the bottom. He so needs a saviour!! Dr. Dobson writes that you must sometimes separate, but you need good Christian Counsel to make sure to do the right thing.
I won't take back the man he is now. But I WOULD take back, happily, a person who has become saved. I have witnessed amazing transformations, and I just think he is wanting to follow in the footsteps of his dad (who became saved at THIS AGE). H has indicated wanting to speak to the C we had, a pastor, but I feel this man may be too much on my side, seeing that I am unequally yoked with a non-believer and is leaning on him to seek divorce so that I will not have to do it (because in Corinthians, the unbeliver can be released by the believer, but if the believer doesn't want to go, you should stay with them).
This will make sense I think to a believer. I may not want my H, but I have compassion for his soul. He will be so lost, soon, and if it is possible for me to help him, I have to!
