Remain calm when you speak with her (at all times). Do not get angry or agitated. Just tell her what's on your mind, be cool, etc. Puppy can prob give you great advice on how to handle this.
I used to get really upset & felt like the world was ending everytime my H dropped the D word and or told me to leave, and felt like crying, begging him to try to work on things with me. Now I realize it was moot. Should have heeded the aforementioned advice. The more calm you act, the better in the long run. Trust me.
