that's where i am thinking of heading right now. Any idea on how to phrase it. What I am trying to get across to her is that if she wants to work on the M or see's a way out of this mess that i will work with her. I know it will take some time but i need to see some light at the end of the tunnel.
If she has no interest then we should just get it done with as I would like to get on with enjoying my life and don't need someone dragging me down.
The danger about having this conversation is that I don't want it to turn into me spilling my guts out. Enough of those happened after she dropped the Bomb and i know how "useful" they are.