W asked me this morning if I have been reading her journal, ummmmmm uh oh, I didn't say yes, basically beat around the bush. I feel tiny right now. But I don't really care.
I'm not going to read it anymore.
Told her I don't go in her room or through her things, not going to waste my time. She probably doesn't believe me but nothing I say right now she will believe anyway.
W asked me this morning if I have been reading her journal, ummmmmm uh oh, I didn't say yes, basically beat around the bush. I feel tiny right now. But I don't really care.
I'm not going to read it anymore.
Told her I don't go in her room or through her things, not going to waste my time. She probably doesn't believe me but nothing I say right now she will believe anyway.
What did you learn about lying recently?
You lie to avoid confrontation. You lie to control her reaction to what you have said or done.
Neither of these things show strength.
"Yes I did read your journal, it wasn't the right thing to do, I know this, neither is lying, there is really nothing more I can say about this, I apologize for invading your privacy."
W asked me this morning if I have been reading her journal, ummmmmm uh oh, I didn't say yes, basically beat around the bush. I feel tiny right now. But I don't really care.
I'm not going to read it anymore.
Told her I don't go in her room or through her things, not going to waste my time. She probably doesn't believe me but nothing I say right now she will believe anyway.
She might believe the truth, especially one that might be a little painful to admit on your part.
I wanted to let you know that I am sorry you are upset that i explained to S that you were going to meetings to get help for your drinking. Like I said it was my oppinion that I should explaine that to him considering he is trying to deal with this. I felt it appropriate and kept it age appropriate. I spoke with S(counselor) this morning and asker her professional opinion if I was out of line in doing so since she is his councelor, she said it was not. I hope this makes you feel more at ease.
As for you thinking I told him you were going to die cause you won't stop drinking....We have both had to explaine to him he can not drink the beer cause it's alcohol or that he can not have other drinks cause they have alcohol in them. I had him call you the very minute he made that comment. We were watching Huck Finn cause we had just finished the book. He saw the dad pass out drunk and asked why he fell over and I said he drank too much alcohol...its bad for you. The next thing he said was "Is daddy gonna die?" I asked why he thought that and he said "cause he drinks too much beer." I had him call you immediately, he has heard our arguments about you drinking too much. That is where all this came from. You chose to switch to rum and coke for a few days so he didn't know.
Im not trying to re hash anything but it is what it is. I hope that you stick with your sobriety. Sincerly.....
I received this email prior to sending her the text about snooping.
