Hi G,

Just back from DC and lobbying with legislators for my students. Got to go sailing on the Chesapeake Bay and eat Maryland crabs...fun!

I've read that book by Susan Anderson and many, many more. One of my favorites was "Spiritual Divorce." I always want to know in my heart I tried everything to save my marriage and then left it with class, dignity, and love.

Thank you for allowing me to say what I need to say and not feel judged. I'm not trying to be superficial at all, but an active lifestyle is one I must have in a partner. I've joined several meetup.com hiking groups and the people I've met there have been incredibly fit...yikes! smile I love it! I would think those yoga classes might have some reasonably fit 50-something women in them, no?? It's a challenge.

BTW, lucky you for not having sleep issues. For a few months last year I was sleeping only 1-3 hours a night. frown Luckily, that has greatly improved. Not back to normal yet, but getting there.


Me 55
H 49
Married 21 years
No kids
bomb 5/09
filed 7/09
divorced and moving forward 5/10

Life is all about Plan B