Ok Ellie, well guess I should have read all the subsequent posts to your post about looking at your spouse's point of view.
Having a different POV does not excuse ANYONE for harrassing or threatening you via e-mail, in fact that likely constitutes a crime. Haveing a differing POV does not excuse ANYONE from this tirade of verbal abuse on your thread.
I sincerely hope that the poster will reflect some of the self-described "class" and cease this behavior before the moderator has to.