Probably one of the most difficult things about living under the same roof as a WAW is probably what i can only refer to the static shock effect. You probably know the feeling when accidentally bump against her or have to squeeze by her its like if you both touch at all you will get shocked. This is even more evident when you are still sleeping in the same bed.
One of the points on this is I am treating her different than i would a friend. The funny thing is I don't know whether this is coming from me or her.
How do people think is the best way to deal with this. I am thinking to start not avoiding touching her and just treat it in the same way i would brush by a female friend. This way if she doesn't comment then it makes things more comfortable.
I have been DB'ing now for about 3 months and while i have seen some progress over the last month, every now and then she makes a quip about separating and 30 mins later will say something that eludes to staying together.
My feeling right now is that she could maintain this limbo for quite a while but I am not sure I can.
At some stage i am going to just tell her that she needs to make up her mind what she wants and i will deal with it either way.
