I asked her to try and not use the past to judge a potentially good future for us, and also to not let her past fears control how she viewed who I am today,
First radio she is not going to beleive anything you say right now.
A little saying around here.
You can't talk your way out of something you acted your way into.
Actions.
Actions for YOU.
MLC? Your call. Don't get caught up in where she is in the stages or when it began. It is what it is. It will end when she decides it will end.
It is helpful to understand maybe what you're dealing with. So looking at the stage etc. helpful to a point BUT
When you start taking focus off you then it is not.
Stop trying to figure out what's in her head.
As far as what she says about you and the M
Listen to the stuff that stings.
THAT is the stuff YOU need to look at for YOU.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
