Thank you for all of your help! I will also say that for her all of this is justified, they are in love, you cant help who you fall in love with, they are soul mates, they have relationship built on trust...HER WORDS not mine...These are all things I have heard from her over the course of finding out. She will find a reason to back ALL of this up. She takes what she wants and she does not care whom she hurts in the process..she does not care if she hurts me or my children..she only cares about HER and what is best for HER! You can help whom you fall in love with...you dont go after your best friend's h...it is wrong...she knew it was wrong and that just tells me that her morals and values do not exsist. It is sad..but I am getting SOOO much stronger..so thank you OW for letting me see my strength!