Long Distance Issues.....Possible WAW

[Dazed&Confused]

I know that i am not the fastest learner, but this about sums up my feelings....

How can one person save a marriage that the other does not want to save? You can't, you detach and let go. You concetrate on making yourself the best person you can be. The rest will work itself out.

I guess I needed to hear it from her sincerely, and not in a heat of rage for 5 minutes. It has truly sunken in now. I just hope that she meant everything that she said about me, my kids, and custody. Does anyone out there have any advice? I'm interested in how to go about this amongst ourselves. Then have a lawyer go over it with each of us? Is this possible and a sound decision?

Thanks again for everyone's input and support. It has been invaluable this past week.