It's like you put on a black cover over your whole body (pulling away) but then flash your leg or your shoulder or your eye here and there. I think it works for gals like us.
Ha! Sounds right, G!
BD, would you consider doing a 'can't be friends'? I think your son has made you really strong! I can read it in your posts! Children are fantastic for grounding us in the 'here and now' aren't they, and our WH's selfishness (if that's what it is) is rendered all the more... unattractive. They lose!
Me 36; H 40 baby born in May M:13, T:15 Bomb (OW): Dec 09 began DBing: Feb WH overseas with OW old: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2027369#Post2027369