Misery loves company...

ok just got back from my date. On the down side, he looks less cute than his pictures! But not ugly..is that harsh? On the upside, the conversation was good and he was a gentleman and was very affectionate....the way I want and need. Caressing and good kissing(not as good as zoobrew!). I made it clear AGAIN that I am not ready for anything serious...just dating for fun and getting out there. But damn he was charming and kept telling me how good I felt (he was caressing my legs and stomach!) and said he was a reformed bad boy! lol! He called me 15 minutes after the end of the date (as I arrived home) and wanted to double check that I will go out with him again and that he had the best night ever and that I wanted to see him again. ugh! I said yes I did and that we would talk soon to set it up. I will go out with him again but...I told him previously that I wanted to date a little while with an end point but not leading to a serious boyfriend because my heart is not ready for that! I TOLD HIM!

I sent a text to zoobrew that said "damn you, zoobrew! Am on a date with a 3rd guy and you are still the sexiest and smartest and I hope I didn't come on too strong but if I did...so be it!

And zoobrew replied with (edited)
"lol. No way could you ever come on too strong. I could easily beat you in that category....(edited) lol lol lol :)"

and then he said
"btw flattery will get you everywhere. But truth be told I'm conflicted about (ex girlfriend) and want to resolve that issue first before pursuing something in good conscience. Call me if you want to discuss. Enjoy your date, cutie! :)"

so I replied (at 12 a.m. something....)

"ok well I totally get it and am only capable of a fling right now...even though you are top notch boyfriend material if that makes sense! wink But I COMPLETELY get it if you can't go there because of your feelings toward (exgirlfriend)! Thanks for your honesty and for the BEST KISSING EVER! My date was chuck steak compared to your filet mignon!"

And I feel fine!


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004