21 years of marriage hanging by a thread

[Chuck66]

PH,
I have misread things too. Jumped the gun on a PA that wasn't, etc.

I talk to my C about this site. Che has reservations about me getting advice off the Internet. But when I tell her the specifics and she agrees to each of the things you are telling me here. The only one she disagrees with is not saying ILY.

mrbt,
I'm hoping my W is as conflicted as yours with the D proceedings but IDK. I told her I was going to file on Mon and it has taken me awhile to get to my L. In the meantime she doesn't want to wait for me and file herself. Not looking good.