Husband left me 3 months pregnant... (continued)

[gatsby11]

Hey BD,

Again, it's weird how similar our sitches are right now.

I personally think that what helped push my WH to counseling was my strong line that I wouldn't be friends with him if we weren't a couple. So I also pulled away into different rooms, etc, when he came over. And I think it helped. It's still good though to do things like what you did for his birthday.

It's like you put on a black cover over your whole body (pulling away) but then flash your leg or your shoulder or your eye here and there. I think it works for gals like us.

(I have to laugh at myself for a moment-- strong line, ha! You guys know how I wavered in implementation. But I really tried. That's my point.)

Keep it up!