Before I came to bed I was on my crackberry returning emails amd the W was very curious and asked who are you writing so much to, I said just returning emails.
There are several users on these forums that complained that their spouses were on their crackberries constantly texting/emailing and then later confirmed that their spouses were in fact communicating with someone they were having an affair with.
In this day & age, the mobile phone is a personal communication device that allows you to communicate with people a lot more than was ever possible.
Her asking you who you were writing so much too was possibly her thinking the same thing.
She had an affair previously, she may have been texting/emailing her affair partner quite a bit, she remembers what she did during that time and see's similarities between what she was doing and what you are doing, the gears in her head start turning and she starts imagining that you might possibly have someone else on the side. You don't but she doesn't know that. It's good to be mysterious, it's attractive, people are curious by nature (you know that part) and I'm sure she's wondering who the heck you are communicating with.
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