Divorcebusting.com  |  Contact      
Previous Thread
Next Thread
Print Thread
Page 21 of 24 1 2 19 20 21 22 23 24
Joined: Jul 2010
Posts: 2,246
P
Member
Offline
Member
P
Joined: Jul 2010
Posts: 2,246
Bark,

Life would be so much better with fast-forward and rewind buttons. Hang in there. We're all rooting for you, and we all know how much it hurts. Pain goes away eventually, our minds won't let us stay in such a painful sitch too long.

God be with you.

Joined: May 2010
Posts: 206
B
Barkley Offline OP
Member
OP Offline
Member
B
Joined: May 2010
Posts: 206
Thanks guys...I am actually out of town for work for the next two days which helps. Couldn't have come at a better time


M: 39
W: 39
Kids (3): S10; S8; D4
Married 14 years
Togethor: 18 years
Wife's Weird Behavior Started: 2nd Half of 2009
Bomb Dropped (about being "so done"): 2/17/10
Current Status: In counseling
Joined: May 2010
Posts: 206
B
Barkley Offline OP
Member
OP Offline
Member
B
Joined: May 2010
Posts: 206
Well....I just got home to a half empty house. She took all of the decor, her clothes, kids clothes, etc. The furniture is all there though

nice

She also decided to tell the kids about the pending divorce and refused to allow me to be there when done so. It's probably a good thing becuase I cried like a baby after talking to them on the phone today

nice

My attorney knows all of this stuff. She is reeeeeaaaaaaaalllyyy eeeeevvviiiiilll


M: 39
W: 39
Kids (3): S10; S8; D4
Married 14 years
Togethor: 18 years
Wife's Weird Behavior Started: 2nd Half of 2009
Bomb Dropped (about being "so done"): 2/17/10
Current Status: In counseling
Joined: Jul 2010
Posts: 356
A
Member
Offline
Member
A
Joined: Jul 2010
Posts: 356
Bark,

I don't know what to say. Actually that's not right. This is total BS! I'm glad your lawyer is a headhunter. I don't know what the proper db thing to do is, but for me it would be all out war. I mean F ing our lives all up is one thing, but putting the kids in that situation is bullshit.

I'm behind you whatever you do. Make sure you take the time to take care of yourself. Stick it ou til the end on here. You have friends who want to listen and quite frankly, you are going to need this outlet.

I'm praying for you bud.


ADAPT. OVERCOME. IMPROVISE.
-Tom Highway


Me: 43
W: 40
S12 & S9
Married 17yrs
Together 20yrs
Joined: Jun 2010
Posts: 945
D
Member
Offline
Member
D
Joined: Jun 2010
Posts: 945
Hang tough Barkley and have your atty BURY that beotch!

Last edited by DanF; 07/29/10 12:18 AM.
Joined: Feb 2008
Posts: 18,296
P
Member
Offline
Member
P
Joined: Feb 2008
Posts: 18,296
Originally Posted By: A_goodman
Bark,

I don't know what to say. Actually that's not right. This is total BS! I'm glad your lawyer is a headhunter. I don't know what the proper db thing to do is, but for me it would be all out war. I mean F ing our lives all up is one thing, but putting the kids in that situation is bullshit.



Seems pretty proper to me, Goodman.

Barkley, it's time to take whatever legal gloves you may have still had on, OFF. Country hardball.

Talking to the kids without you was just unconscionable, and while it will make great fodder in any potential settlement, it doesn't do your kids' hearts any good.

Beotch is right.

I'm so sorry.

Puppy

Joined: May 2010
Posts: 206
B
Barkley Offline OP
Member
OP Offline
Member
B
Joined: May 2010
Posts: 206
Thanks guys


M: 39
W: 39
Kids (3): S10; S8; D4
Married 14 years
Togethor: 18 years
Wife's Weird Behavior Started: 2nd Half of 2009
Bomb Dropped (about being "so done"): 2/17/10
Current Status: In counseling
Joined: Feb 2010
Posts: 988
I
Member
Offline
Member
I
Joined: Feb 2010
Posts: 988
Take off the gloves, Barkley.

I'm sorry to hear all of this.

Good luck to you.

Be strong and love your kids. I know you do.


Me-43
W-36
TS-10
D-7
S-4
M-11
Rings off-8/16/2010

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1933641#Post1933641
Joined: Mar 2010
Posts: 1,164
L
LSG Offline
Member
Offline
Member
L
Joined: Mar 2010
Posts: 1,164
Barkley,

I have not commented on your thread, but I wish the best for you and your kids. I feel very sad and disappointed for you. Be strong!

Hang in there!!!


ME-41 W-33 M-8 D-8 S-4 D 5/17/2010
www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1961097#Post1961097
LSG #2047723 07/30/10 04:03 AM
Joined: Jul 2010
Posts: 356
A
Member
Offline
Member
A
Joined: Jul 2010
Posts: 356
Bark,

How you doing man?


ADAPT. OVERCOME. IMPROVISE.
-Tom Highway


Me: 43
W: 40
S12 & S9
Married 17yrs
Together 20yrs
Page 21 of 24 1 2 19 20 21 22 23 24

Moderated by  Cadet, DnJ, job, Michele Weiner-Davis 

Link Copied to Clipboard
Michele Weiner-Davis Training Corp. 1996-2025. All rights reserved.
Powered by UBB.threads™ PHP Forum Software 7.7.5