Well yeah. I know that. I told her that from the start. That if this got too serious that I would be pushed out. That's human nature. She absolutely insists that she was doing "right by me" but is happiest when she has the freedom to be who she is. Im really stuck on this. I dont want her to be with me out of loyalty and commitment, that is no way to live. But she believes what she believes.
If she "absolutely insists" that she is doing right by you, how come you aren't feeling right?
She sounds like someone who is pretty good at twisting words, thoughts and feelings around til you feel puzzled as to why you started complaining in the first place.
If you don't feel right, it's quite possible that it isn't right regardless of how much she "absolutely insists" that she's doing right by you.
Maybe you should absolutely insist that you are doing right by her for her to start feeling the way she is supposed to feel about you just because you tell her to.
Confused?
You shouldn't be, it's been working for her to say this crap to you and you ate it. Maybe serve her up a hot bowl of this soup and ask her how it tastes.
