Quote: Bravo! You must be the divorcebusting.com expert. You prance around like a know-it-all and spew sh*t without all of the facts first. Are you naturally a gossip? It sure seems that way - and it's very offensive and tacky.
I am sorry, LDWife but that kind of language is simply not acceptable. You may or may not agree with what Ellie thinks and you may or may not like or take her advice. You may even object to her discussing your sitch in her thread if you want. But coming to her thread to use abusive language is a huge no, no in Piecing.
You are entitled to dissent from Ellie's opinion of you and of anyone. But please, phrase it in a more moderate way.
Ellie's remarks, taken in context, expressed concern about you... if maybe not in the way you understand concern should be phrased. She was not abusive; she just disagrees with your pov. That is one of the reasons we come to the board: to get other opinions from different people. To get always approval, most of us have friends and family members.
As to her qualifications, Ellie is very well aware of what rape is and does not need anyone to update her on it. And she did manage to save her marriage and rebuild her life.
Sorry, Ellie. I do not want to start a controversy in your thread. But I cannot accept abusive language. Even from someone who has very obviously been sorely wounded by others in the past and present.
Last edited by optimist; 01/19/0410:32 PM.
"You don't throw a whole life away just 'cause it's banged up a little"
Tom Smith in "Seabiscuit"
