MR

Yes the start of the affair would be the start of replay. That still does not really mean anything. Most crisis are measured from the start of replay because that is the first event that is easy to ID by the LBS.

I disagree with TH, she is in a MLC, as far as when it might end. Maybe next month, maybe in 10 years, maybe somewhere in between.
No one knows for sure other than it takes a longggggg time.
That is why we tell you to stop worrying about her and start worrying about you.

She has given you a gift of time. Start using it wisely.