Punkin,

First, until you are D'ed, you have some potential rights to anything and everything that your H does with your marital assets. I would have refused to sign anything giving up those rights from the get go.

That said, good for you to contact the lender and discover the identity theft. Just one question -- is it possible that your H changed the SS# and pw?

What an a$$!


M 65
H 64
T 39 & M 36 @ S 12/08
Two Ds

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