"I've thought about what you said before you left. I've decided it won't work for me. I'm not willing to live in an open marriage while you date other men. If that's what you want, this isn't going to work, and we need to make arrangements with a mediator and we can work out the final details. We were almost there last year. I won't agree to anything less than 50/50 custody though, so if that's going to be an issue, we might as well not waste our time. The court will have to decide that one.
"I'd appreciate a quick answer on what you'd like to do -- no later than Monday. I'm sure neither one of us want to drag this thing out any further than we have to; Life is short."
Or similar.
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Thoughts??
she snorts and blows her diet pepsi out her nostrils and thinks I have read this before, hmmm.... where is the previous ultimatum he sent me. oh yeah. here it is.
previous ultimatum. ha ha ha. that's kinda funny.
Originally Posted By: 11/21/09
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I've decided I want to get the separation agreement done. This year if at all possible. I'll scrape up the money for my half of the cost, and if you can't afford your half right now, I'll cover that too and you can pay me back.
I'll send a note to the mediator to find a time that works for all of us.