QS has and will continue to work on HIM, and maybe help a few poor souls along the way.
This is not what I see when I read your thread. Go back and read just the last 2-3 pages, and count the number of times the word "wife" "her" and "she" appears, versus how many times you refer to yourself.
Allen, I want to support QS too. And I think the way to do that is to encourage him to drop the rope at this point, and focus on his own growth.
