I went over and read the thread about LDwife that you talked about earlier - she DID mention the fact that she was not comfortable with anal sex and had informed her H of this, and yet woke up to find her H in the act, as it were.
Surely these things need to be discussed or entered into willingly? Not everyone is happy with EVERY variant and practice of sexual intercourse, surely they are allowed their parameters? It shouldn't be forced on an unwilling partner?
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
