And before you tell me it is pursuing, I asked the questions because I am GAL and I do want to find other relationships, but I am scared. I thought her insight might be able to help me as I move on with my life. I tried to make it clear to her that it wasn't about her, but whoever the next person was that I wanted to have a relationship with.
Right. Sure. So what, you're ready to start dating this WEEKEND or something??
Bullchit, L4S, you knew this was wrong to do, and you did it anyway, because it FELT good. Supplication (and the sympathy it garners) always does.
This was a great conversation to have ... 12-18 months from now.
