I'm just on the 4th page of your thread. I do see a lot of similarities between us including our age. You had a lot of help from Puppy, Sandi, Shocked, Number8, Jasper...
You made the move out decision before you got on this site. I wouldn't have known any better since I learned it here too. I really felt alone and thought that my sitch was the only one in the world like this. Then you come here and find out it's an epidemic!
Me 44, W 39, S 6, D 6, M 21 Bomb June 18, 2010 I filed D July 20, 2010 W filed counter suit Aug 2 Rings came off Aug 5, 2010