After Exposure - Keep It Going

[Quicksilver264]

Yes just Facebook. Im working on some other way, but no luck so far.

If i do pull this off without using Facebook I will have reached a new level.

But as for now I have a "Blank generic" Facebook profile that I will use should I need to.

[Allen A]

I am just thinking that if you to inform this woman in teh right way you can make it so she doens't know you even KNOW your wife.. you can introduce yourself as someone who knows OM instead

[Quicksilver264]

Hmmmmm. interesting Allen. Didn't think of it this way, and I shall now try to approach it from that perspective.

[Allen A]

It's a thought, I don't know how you can pull it off...

But I am thinking that you are worried your wife is gonna hear something from OM like

"Your Husband told my gf on me.. sorry we can't do this... SHe's a basket case right now.." or whatever..

you also don't want something like

"My gf got an anonymous note warning her that you were messing around with me... I can't do this right now..."

you want something more like :

"My gf got tipped off by someone that I was cheating on her... I can't do this right now..."

[Allen A]

If you put a LOT of detail about OM in your note and don't even mention your wife's NAME it will leave this guy's girlfriend to think the informant was on his end...

I am hoping that would lead him OFF the trail that it was you...

But you know what... if it is you can just play dumb...

"What are you talking about... That was over weeks ago won't you let that army guy go?"

Just pretend you have no idea what she is talking about.. She's already slipped up once so your wife may be wary about giving up more info than she has to a second time...

You see she can't BLAST YOU without giving HERSELF AWAY in the process.. see?

So as long as there is no concrete proof it was you then its an easy defence on your part...

Play dumb and wait for her to implicate herself again lol

[Puppy Dog Tails]

OK, am I the only one who thinks QS is spending WAYY to much time obsessing about his wife, OM1, OM2, etc., and not enough time on QS???

Just sayin'.

Puppy

[Allen A]

May be pup, but that's his decision, my job is to support I figure... support as long as QS needs it... and wants it...

When QS says cut the cord then that's what we do I figure...

And from QS' perspective this is about doing the right thing and letting this woman know her bf is two timing her and playing her behind her back

I honelsty don't get the feeling this is about QS' wife completely.. I am sure partly but I get the feeling QS is just getting sick of cheaters like we all are... lol

[Quicksilver264]

And from QS' perspective this is about doing the right thing and letting this woman know her bf is two timing her and playing her behind her back

BOOOOM. I am TIRED of CHEATERS AND LIARS.

This poor girl knows NOTHING of what her bastard boyfriend is doing. I SURE AS HELL wish someone exposed to ME back in the first week of MAY.

THEN I might have been able to save this.

And QS is working on HIM ALOT!!!!!! I am COMPLETELY DETACHED and OK with WHATEVER outcome!!!

Ive come a loooooong way Puppy. Seen any emotional reactions from me lately? QS did his homework on HIM.

Now I am doing the RIGHT THING for this girl and her bastard liar boyfriend.

Remember? What would I do if God were standing here beside me? He'd tell me to be HONEST with my knowledge and save a HUMAN BEING the pain and AGONY of an affair.

QS has and will continue to work on HIM, and maybe help a few poor souls along the way.

[Puppy Dog Tails]

QS has and will continue to work on HIM, and maybe help a few poor souls along the way.

This is not what I see when I read your thread. Go back and read just the last 2-3 pages, and count the number of times the word "wife" "her" and "she" appears, versus how many times you refer to yourself.

Allen, I want to support QS too. And I think the way to do that is to encourage him to drop the rope at this point, and focus on his own growth.

Puppy

[Allen A]

QS, you did want to protect yourself re the household and your INTEL system's integrity is important there...

The only big risk you are taking here is that exposing here may have a SLIGHT chance of jeapoardizing that.. Your wife would have to suspect you have something installed on her PC and she would have to format every byte of it to clean you out of there...

I dunno... I would think if she were going to suspect she would have suspected by now... woudln't she?

I mean how clever is this woman computerwise?

I heard you pup... I am gonna give QS this one I think... He sounds like he knows what he's getting himself into here.. even if it is for the multiple reasons, I think QS your eyes are wide open...