hey ellie,

I think my WAW and I are going to see that movie together next week (she mentioned it ) - good idea?

I love your story about the 180 for you - putting yourself at the tp of YOUR priority list. It's so easy for us to forget that 180s are just that - radical changes in the same 'ole behavior - so even if we think that a certain 180 may not be a "loving" gesture on the surface, it in fact may be the most loving thing we could do by showing our mate and/or children something new that results in growth for all concerned.

okay, I'm rambling or philosophizing too much (maybe too much coffee this morning ), but hopefully you get the gist.

Got a lot to tell on my sitch (probably later this weekend) - look forward to your insights.

Have a great one, gal!

Hud