21 years of marriage hanging by a thread

[mrbt]

I am back home now. I moved out because i thought the divorce was sure to happen. It was a last ditch effort to shake wife up and get her to re-think what she was doing. The problem was: I didn't move very far away (walking distance) and never detached. The result was it was easier for her to carry on her affair. If I had it to do over again I would have asked her to leave.