S came down around 2 am slept in my bed. D climbed the pantry and got a can of pringles down, W snapped at me and said you got her chips for breakfast, I looked at her and said "she got them herself" I don't know if it was the look I gave her or my tone, but she got the point not to respond. Gave the kids a kiss and left.
I'm not going to put up woth her sh!t, any more. Went to Dr. To get blood work done, w asked last night what he was testing for, I said the usual stuff. Not going in to great detail. Have a busy day we shall see how it goes. I am trying to be like happy gilmore and thinking of my happy place hot chicks and a white sand beach with no nagging wife.
if you're both home, and your daughter grabbed a can of pringles from the pantry (nice choice btw, I would have gone for the pringles too), how could it be just your fault?
couldn't you have asked her the same question?
"Wife, you fed our daughter pringles for breakfast?"
Obviously she would have snapped at you as well.
Remember she can be Miss Snappy all she wants, just don't reward her behavior with your attention.
And like you mentioned, even she knew not to create an argument out of nothing.
Believe it or not, some experts believe that nagging is good, somewhere deep down they care enough to nag, so when you get a chance today, you come home and hug that wife of yours with tears of joy in your eyes and tell her "thank you for caring!"
;-)
Have a good day, let me know how that "happy place" works out LOL!
Working at the home office, found a journal from the last couple of nights. I snooped.... She writes about teaching the kids about respect, and how things were hard for her when the kids were born and that I didnt help out enough. THe entries are not as hateful and not "i just want out of here" statements. SHe does reference that maybe her next "love" wont have issues like I do. Ha the grass is greener bs again. I guess i snooped because she has gone somewhat dark on me. Nothing in there shows any signs of writing about another guy, just talks about how she is prone to find men who are the same, wake up sister everyone has issues. So then she goes in to how she feels maybe just being alone will be a better place for her.
Robx, let the lashing begin you told me not to snoop, I did, they are her thoughts and I know this, but I was like a kid in a candy store had to taste it a bit.
so out of no where she sent a text, its a valero!!! are you friggin kidding me, they have been building a new valero around the corner for 3 months. She couldnt think of something better to send me a text about? so I waited 15 mins sent her one that said if you have never seen a valero, you need to get out more with a smiley face and tongue out. SO I do not initiate any contact with her at all, and she sends crap like that.
Now I'm a little pissed. I am waiting for W to get home so I can go to group at church, S asks where I am going, told him daddy has a meeting to to work on feeling better. S says "mommy says you go to meetings because you drink too much beer" I can't ffing believe this. She is planting this seed in my S head. I really went to let her have it, I am pissed beyond belief. I am going to leave as soon as she gets home and try and calm down. But it will be very hard to not say anything about what S has said.
I told the W about S, she looked at me and said it wasn't me, I said ya right, totally uncalled for and she could tell I was pissed. I left the house pretty angry. I am thinking why do I want to be with someone who would pull our kids in to this like that? I am at the point to where I want to go home split finances get rid of the house and tell her peace out go enjoy your life.
Set a boundary with her about this. Do not tolerate her disrespecting you in front of your S.
Snooping. No Soup For You! You may think that any info, especially when you're in the dark, is helpful, but it really isn't, and will just hurt you. Unless you're looking for proof of an EA/PA, just don't.
I am so irate right now I left the house, too worked up to go to church. I am sitting in my truck settling down.
I don't know if I even want to go there with the W, that is so disrespectful I want to kick her @ss out, and go file myself. I need to also set the finances separate I have always paid for the bulk of things, and she wants to split then we will split everything.
I think I did a backslide big time letting my emotions get to me.
