I agree with Greek. I think you need to just be direct and to the point. Don't worry about his feelings...it's obvious he isn't respecting yours.

Some guys don't get it until you permanent marker it into the inside of their eyelids.

Even then there are some who would just walk around with their eyes permanently open and pretend there wasn't writing on those eye shades....lol

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