seems like a good plan of action. I have largely been doing the opposite of it.
Maybe I should print it out and keep several copies on hand.
No, don't print it out and keep it on hand. If she goes snooping (which she will if you do all those things because she'll become suspicious) she'll find it and she may think all these things you are doing are "fake" even though you are making yourself a better person.
----"Et tu, Brute?"---- me:28 W:24 S4 T:6 M:4 EA Exposed: 5/21/10 Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day) NC w/ OM: 7/10/10 W moved out 8/21/10 http://bit.ly/aOrZne - My sitch