You can't have everything, where would you put it?

[ClingingToHope]

IR, I wouldn't say STBXW does the bare minimum. She does the best she can with what she brings to the table. She's not "a get out and have fun" person. She'd rather sit on a deck than go swimming. But she's lavishing girlie stuff on them. STBXW shops when she's down and I'm not there to say, hey, you have this bill or that bill coming up. And she's not spending just on herself. The girls have been in new outfits all summer. It's amazing the amount of clothes they have. From what I can gather, they go clothes shopping at least once a week.

Eventually, though, the bills come due and it'll be interesting to see what happens at that point. That's hitting me right now and I'm going to have to bust *ss working the next two months to catch up.

I'd really like to know now where all the money is coming from. My guess is she tapped a new credit card.

The SD card is for the Nintendo Wii. You can pop it in and see a slide show or manipulate the photos. It's fun and now she has her whole life to play with. Do I secretly wish STBXW looks through them as well and realize how much fun we've been having? Yes, I do.

I will be ready to date the day the D is over. Emotionally, she divorced me four years ago. Physically, she divorced me two years ago. I really enjoyed my time on July 4 with the church group. Just having a couple of women to hang out with was tremendous fun.

I have tons of friends and I have two great daughters. I'm just looking for that third leg of the stool.