BD, YOU DID A FANTASTIC JOB with your H!

1)calm and collected--and not as affectionate- a 180 that he noticed!
2)you tugged at his heart strings and showed him some of your best qualities by baking him a cake (heh heh- and he could eat it too! j/k had to say it!) and giving him a photo book

This is good because it is planting seeds and showing how amazing and thoughtful you are...increasing your value...and massaging his ego!

3)and now retreat so he can miss you and think of you!


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004