Hey there, haven't gone anywhere, following along!
Re baby sleeping, I need desperately to get mine into a routine. I borrowed a DVD from the the maternal health library on just that, and hope to have time to read it soon. Basically though I was told, bub has sleep patters of 45mins, if she wakes up feed her then have play time and then put her to bed..a 2-3hr cyle all up. Does that sound about right to you gals?

As for possible reconciliation with WH, I completely agree it is your life G, and it will be hard for others to understand why you would be open to taking him back, but they will understand it time if it happens and if it's working for you. And we MORE than understand here on this forum!
Maybe don't tell them too much to fast... give them time?


Me 36; H 40
baby born in May
M:13, T:15
Bomb (OW): Dec 09
began DBing: Feb
WH overseas with OW
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