See here is the thing--if I had a high paying job, I would definitely hire attorneys to help me keep my income.
Because is the money going to your DD? Heck no--it is going to your W who CHOSE to walk away and reduction of income is a consequence!
If I were the wealthier one, as the LBS, I would fight in court to protect my $$ and then I would be the one to agree to purchase camp for S and all the expensive things because the money is for our CHILDREN NOT OUR GREEDY SPOUSE! Grrrr!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004