What does your L have to recommend? Mine gave me great advice on which battles to engage and possible options. He did the heavy negotiations on my behalf, but only after advising and consulting with me. I found the exchange of communication between the L's to be quite interesting.
Work with your L's paralegal on the detailed expenses as they usually charge much less per hour. Use your L for the knowlege and firepower.
Originally Posted By: CityGirl
Y'day he sent an e-mail that despite his declaration of not being "nasty" or threatening that basically said if I file for the divorce he will do all he can do to make sure I pay for it. LOL! He also rambled on about all his unexpected expenses (I have a gut feeling they are either "fun" things or OW is pregnant).
You gotta love it when they make idle threats. Mine did the similar threats of seeking out a rich guy so as to afford the best lawyer to file for a divorce. She only did half of her threat (found a rich old man), and partly because of her threat, I hired one of the best lawyers and filed for the D with a protective restraining order to keep the kids status quo of living at my house. The best defense is a good offense.
