Before all this crap, when H would inititate ML, I just had the feeling that is was one more thing someone was demanding from me. Of course, I can now see that it was my attitude and frame of mind that was holding me back. And so much here is attitude (as you keep reminding me!). I can see a big part I played in our downfall.
I think the great thing about this board is the differing viewpoints, I think I learn more when someone asks a pointed question instead of agreeing with me. Though there are days when you just need the support. I still remember Soup asking me who I was really angry with about a year ago when I was in a woe is me mood. So, I don't think it is everywhere, the opposition to opposition, just a very vocal minority.
