One other thing, she has attempted to initiate physical meetings a couple of times this week under the auspice of needing to discuss the settlement and I have told her it wasn't necessary. She has gone as far as offering to reschedule or cancel meetings at work, but each time I have told her I didn't see any reason we couldn't handle things over the phone without meeting. Every time this has happened, she has reacted with disappointment that we couldn't get together. Is this a sign of hope, or is it just wishful thinking on my part?


M - 43
WAXW - 42
Married - 24 years
Together - 25 years
S - 23 - passed away 10/17/09
S - 22
Bomb - PA - 6/23/10 - WAW moved in with OM same night
D-day - 9/17/10