Where can I read some good stuff about MLC..other than on this forum? I will try to google it and see what I can find.
I did talk to Virginia at the DB central to discuss marital therapists in my area. She said they no longer give referrals and to speak with one of the DB coaches..I don't have $390 to do that all at one time. I would also like my H to be a part of the recovery process. I did find a couple of people here, but of course the ones I chose are NOT covered under the insurance in network plan. It's just always something. So..I will research the ones that my current IC has suggested and see if they meet some of my needs..mainly "solution-oriented" therapy. Or talk to my H and see if he wants to go out of Network.
Still working on it, haven't thrown in the towel yet. Thanks everyone for all your encouraging words. I just send him little texts every now and again when he is traveling for work to say --hope you have a great day--miss you and your big muscles--you're so hot..stuff like that. Light and easy. He texted me yesterday several times and also called me 3 times. So he is trying. God I love that man.
And yes Jack, I am patient. But I'm about to be one (a patient) if things don't start doing SOMETHING. Ha!
