Well let me ask you this- has she backed down when you smacked down? (not literally of course! I mean like when you came on strong a couple emails ago about the b-day party). If the answer is no, then, like Citygirl says basically, you're damned if you do and damned if you don't...there isn't anything to change this woman's behavior.
Isn't there anything your L can do to speed this divorce up? I mean I know lawyers want to make money so they don't mind dragging things out...
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004