Originally Posted By: Coach


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The problem is she is so myopic about the pain of losing her "other" partner that she isnt hearing me right now.

So stop talking. It doesn't work. You fight feelings with feelings. She feels no pain of losing you.


Read this thread.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2030222#Post2030222


Good thread. And I know it should be that way. It is something that I have struggled with for months. Just letting go. Letting go of the jealousy and letting her be who ever she is. If she is truly poly then letting go would be the way to go. I know for a fact that love is est when its given freely. I do not understand what is perventing me from doing just that.