I sure hope he learns some things. I know I need to learn some things, but I just worry about his attitude of not taking responsibility for anything...
We leave in a few hours! Should be an interesting 4 hour car ride. We haven't been alone together for 4 hours in quite awhile... might be pretty uncomfortable. And what the heck are we going to do on the way home if it goes badly?!!!! Ugh. Not wanting to think about that but I probably should have my ducks in a row (and have some scripts ready) just in case.
D did write H a letter that I found this morning in plain view on the computer desk where he spends so much time playing XBox. It was opened, so he read it. She basically said she didn't think we should throw 20 years away without trying - that she wants what is best for the family - that she's worried most about S14... that she loves H and she knows he is unhappy but thinks he should go with the right attitude this weekend and thanked him for being willing. She stated she agreed with some of the things he had to say the other night (at Borders) but also feels they all should've spoken up more clearly about wanting me to get help for the depression issues. Anyway, it wasn't as "tough" as I would've liked, but I know she tried very hard. :-) I would've liked to see her say that divorce would be terrible for the family - and that they (kids) would be devastated. Oh well.
