I keep working through my head that somehow I have done something wrong. Something horribly wrong to drive my wife away. I just cant figure out what it is so I can stop.
That one's easy. You allowed her to bring another man into your marriage, and into your bed.
Rob, your problems started when you first AGREED to that. NOT when you finally decided to put a STOP to it.
It's been said that in the NFL, the day that a head coach is hired, is also the day he is FIRED ... the date just hasn't been filled in yet.
Same thing here. The day you allowed an interloper into the sanctity of your marriage, was the day you "did something wrong," and "pushed your wife away." Now, it was highly likely that it wouldn't be TRIGGERED until one day when you finally decided to stand up for monogamy, but THAT, Rob, make no mistake, was the day you sealed your original marriage's fate.
Puppy
Yeah I know. Which is why IM trying to figure out how to recover this now. I read around this website quite a bit. It can be done, lots of people have been closer to divorce then I am now and they managed it. So im hoping to get some insight as to how.
